So even though I'm now the second choice and it hurts I want to stay on solid ground so I think I know what to do....I hope. And I'm going to try my hardest. I'm going to act like I don't give a damn, have fun if I can...unless Heather has Cory on a short leash. I refuse to abandon him so I'll be there for him if and when she leaves, but I refuse to be the rebound. If it ever comes up I'll say it all up front, it's all or nothing with us, I'm not the rebound, and I can't just be there because he can't have his first choice.